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Managing your stress is no easy feat, particularly since
there are different types of stress: acute stress and chronic
stress. Acute stress results from an acute situation, such as
a sudden, unexpected negative event or a difficult task like
organizing a wedding or planning for a conference. When
the event passes or the task ends, the stress goes away.
Acute stress has numerous symptoms: anger or irritability,
anxiety, depression, tension headaches or migraines, back
pain, jaw pain, muscular tension, digestive problems, cardiovascular
problems, and dizziness.
Acute stress can be episodic, meaning that one stressful
event follows another, creating a continuous f low of acute
stress. Someone who is always taking on too many projects
at once may suffer from episodic acute stress, rather than
simply acute stress. Workaholics and those with the socalled
Type A personality (i.e., perfectionists) are classic sufferers
of episodic acute stress.
I sometimes refer to acute stress as the good stress. Often,
good things come from this kind of stress, even though it
feels stressful or bad in the short term. Acute stress chalxii
lenges us to stretch ourselves beyond our capabilities. It is
what makes us meet deadlines, push the outside of the envelope,
and invent creative solutions to our problems. Consider
a few examples of good stress:
• Challenging projects
• Positive life-changing events (moving, changing jobs,
or ending unhealthy relationships)
• Confronting fears, illnesses, or people that make us
feel bad
These situations can be difficult to endure, but often the
outcome is good for us in the long term.
Essentially, whenever a stressful event triggers emotional,
intellectual, or spiritual growth, it is a good stress. It is often
not the event itself but your response to the event that determines
whether it is a good or bad stress. Even the death of a
loved one can sometimes lead to personal growth. For example,
we may see something about ourselves we did not see
before, such as new resilience. In this case, grieving a death
can be a good stress, though we are sad in the short term.
What I call the bad stress is known as chronic stress.
Chronic stress results from boredom and stagnation, as well
as prolonged negative circumstances. Essentially, when no
growth occurs from the stressful event, it is bad stress.
When negative events don’t seem to yield anything positive
in the long term, but more of the same, the stress can lead
to chronic and debilitating health problems. Some examples
of bad stress include stagnant jobs or relationships, disability
from terrible accidents or diseases, long-term unemployment,
chronic poverty, racism, or lack of opportunities
for change. These kinds of situations can lead to depression,
low self-esteem, and a host of physical illnesses.
In addition to acute and chronic stress, stress can be
defined in even more precise ways:
• Physical stress (from physical exertion)
• Chemical stress (from exposure to a toxin in the
environment, including from substance abuse)
• Mental stress (from taking on too much
responsibility and worrying about all that has to be
done)
• Emotional stress (from feelings such as anger, fear,
frustration, sadness, betrayal, or bereavement)
• Nutritional stress (from deficiency in certain
vitamins or nutrients, overindulgence in fat or
protein, or food allergies)
• Traumatic stress (from trauma to the body such as
infection, injury, burns, surgery, or extreme
temperatures)
• Psychospiritual stress (from unrest in your personal
relationships or belief system, personal life goals,
and so on—in general, the factors that define
whether or not you are happy)
The bottom line is that stress can make you sick. You have to reorganize your priorities so that
you can reduce chronic stress as well as to incorporate a few
new healing strategies to help combat acute stress. Finding
ways to downshift while incorporating
hands-on healing herbs and
nutrients, inner and outer workouts, and self-care
into your daily routine may dramatically reduce your current
stresses.
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